I have been observing a quality in one of my children that I am not sure I like. And I think she probably learnt it from me. It doesn't sound like a bad thing. In fact, it seems like a good thing. She wants to do the 'right' thing, to get the answer right. She certainly doesn't want to fail. My friend LP told me a brilliant story about failure, which occurred many moons ago when she was taking A Level Art. As the class swot and teachers pet she obviously anticipated success...